I'm the type of person who loves a good plan. And when the plan isn't going how I had hoped (my first mistake) I begin to feel as though I am a failure (my second mistake). Sometimes I get to this point where I feel like I've been working non-stop but have nothing to show for it; I question things and consider abandoning it all (my third mistake).
Right now I am changing my outlook; letting go of all my expectations. I am going to work on being in the moment and doing things for pleasure- not because that's what I should do or because down the road it might lead to this or that. I am taking a leap and letting things unfold as they are supposed to.